So many men long to be desired. Learn how receiving yourself first makes it possible to fully let in love, passion, and genuine intimacy.

Discover compassionate, expert guidance on why desire fades and how to rekindle intimacy. Learn steps to reconnect emotionally and erotically.

A common dynamic: she longs to surrender, he waits for direction. Explore how couples get stuck—and how to reconnect through embodied skill.

Thinking about sex coaching but unsure how to talk to your partner? Learn how to start a caring, honest conversation—whether you want to explore intimacy with a coach together or on your own.

Discover what sex coaching really is and how it can help you feel more confident, connected, and alive in your relationships. Learn how it’s different from therapy and why you might choose it to explore desire, intimacy, and emotional growth.

Struggling with mismatched libidos in your relationship? Discover the real reasons behind low desire.

Can you hold erotic energy without overwhelm? Learn the neurobiology of arousal, why desire feels urgent, and somatic practices to build capacity, containment, and erotic sovereignty.

Ready to explore your unique sexual desires? Here’s the first question you need to ask yourself - and your partner.

Discover why emotional rupture is normal in every relationship—and how a repair process can rebuild trust, deepen intimacy, and reignite desire.

Explore how to speak your truth in relationships—especially around sex, desire, and boundaries—without losing connection or pushing your partner away.

Explore why we hold back our truth, how it dulls intimacy, and how raw, honest communication can rekindle desire and deepen emotional closeness.

Struggling to determine if you have a porn addiction? In this blog I explore when it’s an issue and the root causes.

Feeling shy about self-pleasuring in front of your partner? Overcome shame, build confidence, and deepen intimacy with this guide.

Confidence isn’t something you have to “put on” like a mask. Learn practical steps to identify desires, communicate openly with your partner, and embrace receiving. Start cultivating true confidence.

Discover the art of impact—both in BDSM and in intimate relationships. This blog explores why we shut down to sensation and connection, how impact play can teach us to open, and what it means to truly feel and be felt. 

I wrote this for my lover early on in our courtship…I love the language of love and passion.

Is romance one of your erotic needs? Cultivate the vibe—whether with a partner or yourself. Learn how romantic words, gestures, and energy can deepen intimacy and awaken desire.

Unlock the simple secret to deeper intimacy and electrifying pleasure by mastering the power of attention in your erotic life.

Are you constantly putting your partner’s needs before your own? Overriding your desires to keep the peace? It’s time to break free from the people-pleasing trap and reclaim your authentic self. 

Discover what fetishes are, why they develop, and how to embrace your desires with confidence and self-acceptance.