Hello! (Rawr.)
I inspire modern lovers to follow the pulse of their unique erotic nature.
You do not have to endure bad sex, no sex, or lack of knowledge about your deepest longings.
After my divorce, I went on a quest to explore love and intimacy. Despite years of experience in energy healing, meditation, tantra, and yoga, I hadn’t fully examined my sexuality or what makes relationships work.
I realized I didn’t understand my desires or what relationship structures work best for me – only that I craved more fun, depth, and wildness. Training with SomaticaⓇ and other transformative programs helped me uncover my turn-ons and hang-ups, desires and demons—and embrace deeper dimensions of my erotic nature.
Now, I help individuals and couples do the same. I offer a safe, playful space to explore desires, fantasies, emotions, and beliefs, with a focus on empathy, non-judgment, and respect. Through talk-based coaching and experiential practices, we’ll release repressed parts of your erotic identity and open new possibilities.
P H I L O S O P H Y & A P P R O A C H
Somatic experience is essential to growing deep erotic relationships.
A thriving erotic relationship is shared between bodies as well as minds. Developing a fully embodied relationship requires time, patience, and experience, and my role is to provide a space for healing and growth in your somatic awareness.
Non-judgment, embodied empathy and respect provide the foundation of every session—for client and coach.
By identifying and shifting habitual behaviors through an embodied process, you unlock a more fulfilling sex life and deeper relationships. This approach has been utilized by sex and relationship coaches throughout human history, but has become quiet—even taboo—in a modern world obsessed with mental activity.
so·mat·ic
adj. — relating to the body, as distinct from the mind/psyche.
The Erotic Senses coaching approach combines talk-based coaching with experiential practices to expand your skills and beliefs around intimacy.
TRAINING
E X P E R T I S E & S P E C I A L I Z A T I O N
Transformation Through Pleasure
The unique method taught at the Somatica Institute leverages the latest neuroscience research to support the way your mind and body learn to go beyond talk-based interactions. It includes training in real-time interactions, support, guidance, and feedback. This experiential practice uses relationship tools, such as embodied empathy, decision-making, and practicing sensuality and two-way relating, to help clients learn how to experience authentic intimacy. Want to see a Somatic coaching session in action?
Providing Holistic Healing
Holistic healing is a fundamental aspect of every session, as it involves the integration of physical, emotional, and spiritual aspects of your whole self. My training allows you to explore the nutrition that can fuel your erotic life, the shadows that keep your true eroticism buried, and the luminous aspects of who you truly are.
Be More Than Your Mind
My training in body-based practices like yoga and tantra are invaluable tools for cultivating your healthy erotic self. I have trained in methods that enhance your body awareness, sensuality, and relaxation, which will enhance pleasure, intimacy, and connection with yourself and your partner.
WHAT DOES MY TAGLINE MEAN?
“Let’s let you out.”
This short phrase embodies the idea of releasing your true, authentic erotic self. It is about unburying the parts of yourself that have been hidden or repressed, and freeing yourself from shame, guilt, and the expectations that have coiled around you since you were a boy. You’re not in it alone.
"Shame cannot survive being spoken. It cannot survive empathy."
— B R E N E B R O W N
Through your process of release and erotic liberation, you will experience greater freedom, pleasure, and fulfillment in all aspects of your life, not just the bedroom. The Somatica Method provides a safe and supportive space for this journey of self-discovery and transformation.
“Life is so damn short. For fuck’s sake, just do what makes you happy.”
— B I L L M U R R A Y
The animal body is to be harnessed, not repressed.
FAQS
FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
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Our sessions are co-created based on the material you bring in. Through discussion, we’ll determine what you want more of, which areas of your relationships are a struggle, and what’s holding you back.
Then we practice in real-time! Exercises can include: visualizations, energetic explorations, role-playing (example: going on a date), rehearsing (example: having an emotional conversation with a partner), two-way touch, or other experiential interactions.
While we practice amplifying erotic energy, intercourse or other sexual acts are not part of Erotic Senses sessions.
Sessions are held virtually on Zoom, or in person upon approval.
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In traditional therapy models, the client/practitioner relationship is one-way, talk-based, and doesn’t typically include sexuality.
In Erotic Senses sessions, we enter a relational laboratory. Together, we’ll practice the awareness and skills needed to develop honest, genuine, and sexually satisfying relationships.
As long as consent is given, skill-building exercises can include two-way touch. I will share my honest reflections, feelings, and responses and encourage you to do the same.
Our work will go beyond what’s possible with therapy - instead of theory and analysis, we will experience and play!
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In session, touch can go both ways (with mutual consent). Clothing stays on.
This might include holding, snuggling, touch training or body-to-body contact.
Sessions will not include having sex, genital stimulation, or nudity. Sex coaching is not sex therapy or sex work.
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Throughout our work together, you’ll develop skills that liberate erotic energy and deepen your intimate relationship(s).
These can include:
-Setting boundaries with clarity and kindness
-Asking for consent in ways that build erotic heat
-Attuning to your embodied sensations, desires, and impulses; knowing your YES and your NO
-Attuning to a partner’s cues and subtle signals, and responding in ways that deepen connection
-Releasing shame around sexual desire and performance
-Building confidence in approaching, dating, and relating to female partners
-Knowing what you want sexually and how to ask for it
-Developing secure attachments
-Connecting to your emotions and expressing them in healthy ways
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I work with women or couples if asked. When working with couples, I prefer to also see each partner separately at the beginning of our work together. Contact me at beth@eroticsenses.co to schedule.
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A free consultation. I want you to get to know me, and I need to get to know you. Intimacy coaching is intensely delicate, if we’re a fit we’ll know it. If we’re not, we’ll know it. Click here to schedule a consultation.
