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Sex Coaching for Couples
Reignite Connection. Deepen Intimacy. Embody Erotic Truth.
I N T I M A C Y C O A C H I N G
Navigate the chapters of your erotic journey, together.
All relationships go through seasons of connection and disconnection. Erotic Senses coaching is a supported and intentional space for couples to reignite their communication, passion, and sexual truth.
Who was supposed to teach us about all this fucking stuff?
Modern couples are coming to grips with the insufficient support they received from role models on their erotic journey. Few of us are in touch with the stories that shaped our erotic fingerprint, and intimacy coaching is a space to slow down and practice real intimacy with support, intention, and willingness to explore what’s been hidden or left behind.
Reignite desire through presence, play, and permission.
Practice Speaking Honestly, Listening Deeply
Learn to communicate your needs and emotions in ways that build connection, not conflict.
Bring Shadow Into the Erotic
Uncover and integrate the disowned or hidden parts of your desire—shame, kink, taboo, longing—and bring them into the bedroom with consent, safety, and reverence.
Practice Real-Time Intimacy
Engage in guided, experiential exercises that help you re-pattern how you relate—physically, emotionally, and erotically.
FOR COUPLES WHO…
want to feel more emotionally and physically connected.
are curious about what you’ve never allowed yourself to want.
long to feel desire again.
feel stuck in cycles of tension, resentment or silence.
are navigating a major life shift or new relationship chapter.
want to bring more vitality and play into your sex life
METHOD
T H E E R O T I C S E N S E S A P P R O A C H
Bring it all. Be met.
This isn’t just relationship work—it’s erotic reclamation. Together, we strip away roles and routines to reveal the raw, desiring truth beneath. You’ll be held in a space charged with presence, attunement, and turn-on, where both of you are invited to bring your full selves—tender, kinky, messy, hungry—and meet each other there. This is where intimacy gets honest, and passion comes alive again. Learn More About Beth.
Transforming Through Pleasure
The unique method taught at the Somatica Institute leverages the latest neuroscience research to support the way people learn to go beyond talk-based interactions. It includes training in real-time interactions, support, guidance, and feedback. This experiential practice uses relationship tools, such as embodied empathy, decision-making, and practicing sensuality and two-way relating, to help clients learn how to experience authentic intimacy. Want to see a Somatic coaching session in action?
Healing and Unleashing Your Buried Erotic Self
During and after sessions, you receive actionable steps chosen specifically for your needs that integrate what you experience in the session into your life. This can include awareness exercises and intimacy-building techniques that promote deeper connections and more satisfying experiences for your erotic life.
Coaching is a couple’s workshop for being:
SEEN
BY HUNGRY EYES
TOUCHED
BY CARING HANDS
FELT
BY AN EAGER PARTNER
OUTCOMES
Be Seen by
Hungry Eyes
You are not just habits and history. You are mystery—deserving to be seen in your full erotic truth. In this work, we uncover the internal narratives and shadowed parts that keep you guarded. When you drop the masks and meet each other eye to eye, you’ll find new pathways to erotic exploration.
Be Touched by
Caring Hands
Touch is not just physical—it’s a language of love, trust, and turn-on. You’ll learn to name what you want, inspire your partner’s touch, and listen to their body with yours. No more silent hoping or misunderstood cues. No more enduring sex you do not want. We’ll practice giving, receiving, and co-creating intentional, alive, and deeply satisfying touch for both of you..
Be Felt by an
Eager Partner
Everybody holds a unique erotic map. Together, we’ll uncover what turns each of you on at the deepest level—not just physically, but emotionally, energetically, and psychologically. This work helps you tune into your own arousal blueprint, and then learn how to offer it to each other with presence, curiosity, and skill.
“Let’s let you out.”
This short phrase embodies the idea of releasing your true, authentic erotic self. It is about unburying the parts of yourself that have been hidden or repressed, and freeing you from shame, guilt, and the expectations that have slowly coiled around you since you were a child. You’re not alone, there is a path and a process to the erotic life of your dreams.
"Shame cannot survive being spoken. It cannot survive empathy."
— B R E N E B R O W N
Through your process of release and erotic liberation, you will experience greater freedom, pleasure, and fulfillment in all aspects of your life, not just the bedroom. Intimacy coaching provides a safe and playful space for your journey of self-discovery and transformation. Let’s let you out.
“Life is so damn short. For fuck’s sake, just do what makes you happy.”
— B I L L M U R R A Y
The animal body is to be harnessed, not repressed.
FAQS
FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
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Each session is co-created with both of you, based on what’s alive in your relationship. Through open conversation, we’ll explore what you long for more of—emotionally, erotically, and relationally. We’ll also gently identify where things feel stuck or strained, and uncover what might be getting in the way.
Then we move into real-time practice. Experiential exercises may include: guided visualizations, energetic attunement, role-play (like navigating a difficult conversation or trying on a new dynamic), somatic dialogue, or two-way consensual touch. The goal is not performance—it’s presence, discovery, and embodied connection.
While we work with erotic energy and arousal, intercourse and sexual acts are never part of sessions. Your boundaries and comfort are always honored.
Sessions are offered virtually via Zoom, or in person upon request and approval.
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Traditional therapy often stays in the realm of talk, with a one-way dynamic and limited engagement with sexuality or embodiment. While it can offer valuable insight, it rarely touches the heat, vulnerability, and play that real intimacy requires.
In Erotic Senses sessions, we step into a relational laboratory—together. You’ll not only talk about your relationship, you’ll practice it: in real time, with real feedback, sensation, emotion, and erotic charge.
With consent, we may explore guided two-way touch, embodied exercises, role-play, or emotional rehearsal—learning by doing, not just thinking. I’ll share honest reflections, and invite you both to do the same.
This is experiential intimacy work—alive, embodied, and relational. Less analysis. More connection. More turn-on. More truth.
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Touch in sessions is always consensual, clothed, and co-created with both partners. Depending on your goals, we may explore practices like holding, cuddling, touch training, or body-to-body contact—all designed to build safety, connection, and erotic attunement.
There is no nudity or explicit sexual activity in Erotic Senses sessions. This is not sex therapy or sex work—it’s somatic coaching grounded in respect, clarity, and turn-on as a pathway to growth.
Touch is never required. It’s one of many tools we may use to support your unique erotic and relational evolution.
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Throughout our work together, you’ll develop embodied skills that liberate erotic energy and deepen your connection—emotionally, physically, and sexually.
These may include:
Discovering your unique turn-ons—and how to offer them to each other with presence, consent, and play
Setting boundaries with clarity, compassion, and erotic integrity
Asking for consent in ways that build safety and spark arousal
Attuning to your own embodied sensations, desires, and impulses—learning to trust your authentic yes and no
Reading your partner’s subtle cues and responding in ways that invite deeper intimacy
Releasing shame around desire, fantasy, or performance
Naming what you want sexually—and learning how to ask for it in a way that draws your partner closer
Cultivating secure attachment while staying connected to your erotic individuality
Expressing emotion and turn-on in real time—without fear, pressure, or performance
This is about building an intimate life that reflects who you truly are—and sharing that with each other, moment by moment, touch by touch.
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A free consultation. I want you to get to know me, and I need to get to know you. Intimacy coaching is intensely delicate, if we’re a fit we’ll know it. If we’re not, we’ll know it. Click here to schedule a consultation.
